Monday, November 5, 2012

''i am starting with the man in the mirror"

its amaizing how much wisdom you can gain in one night if you are eqiuipped with the proper tools to handle and accept certain truths.

such an incident occured to me last night..one would say it was a tough one.

yes it was..but then again..its how you look  things that makes the difference. and my higher self came to my rescue and within a mattet of minuites i began to see a "apparant" adverse event in the most beautiful way.

that is growth!

its also amizing to observe your self ReAct the way you do.

The greatest lesson i could learn from this situation is that..any one can change the atmosphere, outcome, and even the cource of an event JUST by ChOOsing to see it in a different angle.

so how can one actually train him/herself to have such points of views which are different from the way an ordinary person would? in other words ..how can one ReACt in extraordinary ways therby changing the the situation to a one that will bring about peace and a sence of calmness when initial indications of an event may be masked by a complete differebt outcome?

personally i should say that it is my love for GOD and the divine goodness which helped me achive this..and you may have your own ways of tapping in to this wisdom.

can i also add that..it has little to do with your biological age..what matters is your spiritual maturity...and belive me i didnt knwo i had it in me till i actually facedvthe event!! and i am sure YOu could agree with me on this.

some times we dont know how strong we are untill we actually face the situation! human existance is amaizing isnt it?

i mentioned earlier that it has little to do with your biological age but your spiritual maturity. i personally iam blesssd to have a circle of friends and loved ones that are beautiful souls and are very much matured. and some, well beyond their age.

another component that i feel is vital in bringing about such beautiful ways of ReActing to "apparantly" adverse events are your garden plants!

garden plants?? what am i talking here? well i am talking about our own life gardens...and some times ..even without our notice..in it can grow beautiful plants of wisdom and spiritual strength that you even didnt know existed..and may i add to here that. the same applies to weed plants....there are also plants of weeds that grow within our garden sucking up all the precious life energy and they will continue to thrive if we are not carful enough.

so how can we stop these weeds from hijacking your beautiful gardens??
yes...one good way is to be vigilant in terms of what you INTroduce to your soil.
that is to be responsible in terms of what we listen, whos advice we take in, and our role models that we choose to follow.

role models add in to our beautiful life gardens some traits of theirs if we allow them to. and this is why we need to be really carrful whos advice we listen to and whos path we choose to travel on.

for me personally i have a few selected rile models that i was aware of from my young days but now i have finally started following them.

Jesus is my main role model as a brother and a great teacher.

the mother of jesus is my motherly role model and she has been providing me with a lot of wisdom and guidance.

Jesusus earthly father Joseph is my role model of a good father.

and of cource these are the main ones from my faith..i have a few more who have walkedbon earth and some that are alive and yes some of my family members i have chosen to make my role models.

so yes....when we become their greatest fans..they will begin entering our lives with the beautuful traits of character and strength.

some of character traits that i would like to pointbout are

patience
richness of heart
love
the way they see the world
the way they lived and living
the legacy they left for us
the story they shared
kindness
compassion
love for humanity
joy
humor
playfulness
empathy

ect

so yes..i like to believ that its with the help of such people that made me become a proud owner of such a good garden! and i will always grow to become a better and better a gardner so that i am vigilant interms of what i choose to plant and nurture in my beautiful garden. i will be vigilant in spotting those weeds. and i will be vigilant in terms of who i invite in.

there are time that you have little choce but invite them in. but lets be vigilant to notice if they drop any seeds of distructive weeds as they leave.

in the end of the day. one has to be responsible to their own garden.

so..yes ..its day 6 in my Movember:-)..and evry time i look at the sign ''man in the mirror" and every time i look at myself in the mirror ...i am determined to chnage myself first..so that i can inspire others too.

if you love to leave a legacy behind you...the best way is not to preach..but to live that story...and make your life that your legacy.

how can we be strong when temptations are high?

i am glad i am a catholic and my belif that i am loved by my heavenly father...and talking about heavenly fathers..i have two there and one step father down here ;-)! how wonderful is that.

yes ...we do get help from the heavens..and to be very honest..these days i Totally depend on heavenly guidance and i like to believ that my grace and strenght comes from the people up there

any one can ask for help and help will be recived. its just a matter of asking. with faith anf trust.

God bless you

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